Saturday, December 5, 2015

New Friends/New Family



When I imagined my life in Germany back home, I envisioned having a circle of friends consisting of Germans. However, since I am surrounded by Erasmus and foreign exchange students, my friend group consists of people from all over the world. While this is not an ideal situation for getting better at German (since we speak English), I am so grateful for the international family that I get to be a part of. Never in my life will I be able to say that my best friends are Canadian, Hungarian, British, French, Finnish, and Taiwanese. I have learned so much from my friends, but have realized most importantly that relationships are much more important than learning a language. Since I was raised in a very monocultural society in southern Georgia, being placed in an environment where so many mentalities and beliefs come together has been a fundamental factor in my personal growth. This experience is teaching me to relate to people who are completely different from myself and to challenge or confirm the values and beliefs that have been instilled in me throughout my upbringing.

If I could give future "study abroaders" two pieces of advice, it would be;

1) Don't feel like you can't be friends with people who don't speak the language of your host country. Remember, you will learn life lessons that are much more important than the language.
2) Challenge yourself! Don't assume that everything that has been taught to you by your home society is ultimate truth. Use  the opinions of others from other countries to confirm your beliefs or challenge them.






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My goals in studying abroad



My academic intention in my decision to study abroad was the following:

1) Increase my German language proficiency, specifically in my writing and professional vocabulary
2) Prepare myself for a potential career in Germany
3) Take courses that are not available at UGA but still very applicable to my future career

So far, I can proudly say that I feel much more confident in speaking German. In fact, I am almost proud when I make a mistake in English since it is getting harder to speak it (meaning my German is getting better..yayyy). I have actually been considering changing my career to teaching German as a second language. My studies so far have been towards speech pathology, however my interests are turning more and more towards teaching German to children. Fortunately, my courses in Speech pathology have been relevant and can assist me in whatever future career I pursue since it required me to take many linguistic and language acquisition courses. I am still in the process of applying to graduate programs in both disciplines since I have not made up my mind yet and would like to keep my options open. The longer I stay here, the more confident I become in my new decision. I truly can say that this experience is changing me as a person for what I believe is the better.

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Oktoberfest

 
I have had many first time experiences that have been "typical German". But these haven't been my favorite. This is not to say that I am not impressed with Germany. In fact, It's the opposite. I feel very at home here and would love to find a way to stay longer. However,  I continue to discover that what makes Germany famous in the world is not necessarily the best it has to offer.

For instance, I went to the Oktoberfest in Munich for the first time only a month after I arrived in Bamberg. My friends and I went all out buying the expensive Dirndl and giving into the outrageous costs of the German beverages. But when we arrived, we could barely find a table to sit at and everything was extremely crowded. We ended up sitting with a group of Italians who were very kind. Overall, we saw more foreign tourists than Germans themselves. You got the feeling that the Oktoberfest was once great but you could tell that tourism had stolen the traditional atmosphere that  it once was. The next weekend, we attended a beerfest in Bamberg which was not nearly as big as the Oktoberfest, but was filled with German music, traditional singing and EVERYONE wearing the traditional clothing. My favorite experiences are those that happen outside of the tourist attractions where real German culture truly is displayed.

And, yes, I miss peanut butter. But I fortunately have a dear friend that supplied me some in the mail.


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